Three years ago, I met cousins Robert (8)* and Phillip (5)* while participating in the Juntos tutoring program. Robert and Phillip had a special relationship, relying on each other for support and encouragement. Over the course of time, I would learn why.
During the “get-acquainted” portion of the program, Robert told me that he lived with his mom and some men whose names he didn't know. At this time, Robert was very much on edge and obviously nervous about almost everything. My heart broke for him.
Over the next several months, during weekly study-halls, I found that simply keeping Robert's focus on anything nondestructive was a success. He was constantly acting up, misbehaving, and being destructive. Eventually, I learned that both boys were routinely pulled out of their home in the middle of the night by child protective services. Yet, I would see them the next day and they would act as if nothing had happened. One foster family told me how the boys would sleep with the lights on, their dog at their sides, their lives filled with fear and uncertainty.
But my time with them was special. I would play ball with them, read to them, and help out with Phillip’s art interests. Tutoring of school subjects became secondary to building a trusting, healthy relationship. In reality, I may have been the only adult male they knew who treated them with respect, love, and encouragement.
Eventually, we began to discuss things of significance: like what they might do with their lives and how to deal with hard times, like when an older school friend was killed on the street. The weight of the issues these children deal with is staggering! Robert, though, still had challenges. He was kicked out of one school for fighting. Still, I always tried to let them know they were loved.
It was often with the simplest gestures that real relationship was formed. When I brought his favorite pineapple-and-bacon pizza to our meeting, Phillip was amazed that I had listened to what he told me.
Fast forward three years. Robert and Phillip are still involved with Juntos. There have been some improvements in their family life, but times are still tough. After a recent meeting, though, I reflected on the remarkable transformation in their lives. Robert is more controlled, shows less anger, and seems like a genuinely happy soul. Phillip, always a smiler, now has a focus to his activities and is excited to be learning and growing. I believe the love and care these boys received at Juntos changed the paths of their lives. They still have hard times ahead (as do we all), but they can take heart in the promise of Jesus: that through Him we can overcome this world.
How can you be part of this miracle-making program? You can volunteer your time and show a child he or she really is loved. And, after 12 years of stories like this, Juntos is finally able to work toward purchasing a permanent facility in the target neighborhood! With suitable buildings becoming available, the funding needs are significant, but certainly achievable. A new facility negates costly van transportation and increases access. Click here to donate to the building fund.
(Individual photo taken by Jasmine Mostrom)
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Men’s Bible Study Fellowship starts THIS Tuesday, September 10 at 6:30pm in the MCC Library. This year they will be studying “Acts and Letters of the Apostles”. BSF provides an in-depth, international Bible study that helps people know God and equips them to effectively serve the Church. Contact Tom Young.
Women’s Community Bible Study begins this week; September 10th and 11th! The evening group meets Tuesdays at 6:30pm in the Fellowship Hall beginning September 10 and the morning group meets Wednesdays at 9:15am beginning September 11! Childcare is provided for the Wednesday study only. Contact Pam Cravens.
The Women’s Peacemaking Study is Thursdays at 10:00am in the Conference Room beginning September 19. This study offers a meaningful, lasting message to lead you out of conflict and into a state of peace where you can live as a representative of Christ to other women and unbelievers. Contact Christine Leggett.
MCC Elders are hosting a 4-week Foundations Class starting September 15. This class is designed to better help you get to know MCC - who we are, what we believe and why, and how to get connected. Please sign up with Sarah.
With winter coming the Wood Ministry is already getting calls requesting wood but we need men, women, and couples to serve as sponsors! For those interested in learning about Wood Ministry sponsorship, there is a training Saturday, October 12th at 9:00am in the conference room. We would love to share what it means to be a sponsor and how sponsorship through the wood ministry changes lives by helping people see their own value and build their own support systems by sharing our time and a few cords of wood. Contact Sarah at the church office.
"You will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be My witnesses both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and even to the remotest part of the earth.” Acts 1:8
Are you interested in being a witness for Christ in a remote part of the world? Have you wondered if a short-term mission trip is right for you? If so, join us for an informational meeting to discuss our Spring 2020 Bolivia Mission trip with Food for the Hungry next Sunday, September 8th after 2nd service in the Youth Hall. Contact Jennifer Ward.
Sisters in Stitches is meeting Wednesday, September 11 from 1:00 - 3:00 pm in the Fellowship Halll. All SIS and interested women are encouraged to join us to fellowship and discuss on-going plans for this ministry. Snacks will be provided. Contact Davra Clayton for more information and to RSVP .
ABQ Biblical Counseling is hosting "A Biblical Response to Mental Health Conference” September 13-15 at Desert Springs Church. Registrations will be accepted until September 12th! Visit abqbcc.com for more information.